Jilara (jilara) wrote,

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Reflecting on conversations I've had over the past week or so, and realizing that what I miss most in the world is something along the lines of a partner who isn't intimidated by who and what I am, than can meet me on an equal basis. Not as someone who is trying to make me happy by being what he thinks I want. Not someone who is along for the ride, hoping I will rub off on them, or wants the vicarious experience. Not someone who is intimidated by me.
As a friend puts it, someone who has their own comic, and isn't a sidekick or a Companion. It's just those damned crossovers are rare... (He knows who he is, and I appreciate being able to sometimes do a crossover appearance.)

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