philosophicalI can see how their philosophy of "First, you have to give up being right, even if you are" can influence things like peace talks. It was one of the things I learned early on in dealing with my father, and sure made my life a lot easier. I didn't say pleasant, but definitely much easier.
Of course, in my case, I think the major reason I like them is simply this: for the first time in 32 years, I didn't get morose, morbid, or depressed on Mother's Day. Here's to letting loose of pedestals, self-blame, rationalizations, coulda/shoulda, and idolizations, and self-blame. In return, I accept better understanding of a remarkable but troubled woman.
